If a primary caretaker has a negative attitude towards their child, it increases the risk that their child will grow up hostile towards others. It’s not just aggression toward others that results from child abuse, a large amount of children raised by abusive parents also harm themselves. The children don’t learn appropriate techniques for handling lifes disappointments and in result abuse occurs. If you aren’t raised with coping skills, you’re more to likely to act inappropriate than if you have already developed reasonable approaches. The impact poor parenting has reported by Dr. Geoffrey Dahmer in “The Bully Papers” is that everyone gets the child they deserve.